a) Get off the whole honour thing. It's outdated in this game, and it's time for you to realise (even if you don't accept) that most other players don't see things your way. I am NOT saying that it's outdated in real life (as it most certainly is not), but this game is not real life, and people should not treat it as such.
b) There is no b.
In my opinion, the game is just fine the way it is. If you don't like the 'dishonourable, barbaric, un-community-spirit oriented approach' of the rest of the players, then as far as I'm concerned, you can shove it. I believe I speak for many people here when I say that my real-life friends and communities take huge precedence over this, and as a result I don't overly worry about this community, and what people think of me here. This does not mean that I'm going to 'let loose' when I play Aces High and act like a stupid, ignorant, arrogant and rude jerk-off, by contrast I always try to treat people here as I would if I actually knew them.
Sorry for being so rude, but I've seen so many of these nostalgia posts that it drives me nuts. I know I should ignore them since I don't like them, but hey.