Alas Mrs HT loves flying the real thing, but she is not into video games very much.
HiTech
Maybe you can build her a nice virtual cockpit, make it seem real.
Ask if you can borrow the one from the Air and Space museum, that thing is a fun one. I'm sure you could play AH on it.
Then we could have the Christmas Claus's (Claus', Clauses whatever it would be) flying around.