A select few pilots have flown both the P-51 and 109. All of them (that I have read/listened to) say that the two aircraft have similar stick forces; if anything they usually praise the 109 more for its better slow-medium speed control lightness and harmonization. The Merlin powered P-51 had a lot of teething problems, but, for some reason, they are largely overlooked. It had problems with the canopy frosting over, with jamming guns, with the engine cooling system and the engine itself, and with shedding the tail. In fact, the plane had so many problems initially that Col. Don Blakeslee, CO of the 4FG, called it "an experimental aircraft" and expressed doubts that it could be successful.
The P-38 had gone through its teething troubles the previous fall and with the introduction into ETO combat of the J model well-pleased its pilots. FGs getting the P-51 were unhappy and pilots grumbled that they would rather have the Lockheed. It was not uncommon to have almost 30 percent of P-51 sorties aborted for mechanical reasons during the winter and spring of 1944 (typical abort rate for all causes for all USAAF aircraft was 8 percent). When the D model became available in quantity in the summer, cases of the aircraft losing its tail surfaces in flight began to be reported. Flight restrictions were placed on the aircraft and the tail surfaces were beefed up.
Wing failures were also reported due to control stick force reversal in high-speed dives. The bobweight was added to the elevator control system to fix this problem. But for the aircraft to be even marginally stable, the fuselage fuel tank had to be less than half full. The Mustang still had problems a year later when the 7AF began B-29 escort missions to Japan. Incidences were reported of tail surface failures in dogfights. In one instance in April, 1945, a P-51D got into a dogfight with a Mitsubishi Raiden. During the violent manoeuvring, the Mustang first shed its tail control surfaces and then its wings were torn off. The pilot, 2Lt. James Beattie, did not survive. The Raiden apparently suffered no damage from the severe loads placed on it during the dogfight.
Should all of these vices be modelled in AH? No. Should some of them? Yes.