I know that age has been a concern when someone wants to join our squadron. The thing is it has had nothing to do with maturity or trouble.
The reason its been a question has been due to Guys post things like adult jokes and questionable langauge in our private forum. Also our yearly gatherings can be a bit more adult oriented.
Now I wouldnt say most guys at 16 cant deal with that stuff, but it could be an issue with some parents. As a Squad we just havent wanted to take that on.
A while back me and the CO talked about a CAF JR. squad for youths, but we just didnt see the need.
The Reason I bring it up is, refusal into a squad based on age, might have other reasons than being Mature.
As for Youths and Young adults, Its just a matter of treating them with respect, at the same time realising they are still growing. I have great raport with teens and enjoy them alot. Im over 40 now, but relate well with the younger adults. Funny thing, they all seem to enjoy me and treat me with that same respect.
A do see your Frustration of being labeled as imature. Dont let it get to you, and always treat others with respect, be forgiving and generous. Follow those guides and you always do fine.