A good point to try to press is that safety is not enhanced by a weak engine.
A used 6-cyl accord would make a great first car. Plenty of power for a new driver, reliable, good safety statistics. Roomy enough to drive around a few friends, good visibility out of it. And if you have spare money, it's easy to buy things to modify an accord to match your tastes.
That said, I learned on a mid-size station wagon with a powerful V8 engine, so very early on I learned to appreciate and respect powerful vehicles. My next car was a grossly underpowered but reliable and inexpensive datsun 210. My next car after those two was a trans-am, after I had a regular paycheck for 4 years and knew I was guaranteed able to pay for it ahead of the loan schedule.
So for a first car...
1. Powerful enough engine to get the car moving. Underpowered is just as "unsafe" as overpowered.
2. Reliability (honda, in my experience, is great for reliability).
3. Safe. Medium sized sedans are about as safe as they get in a "normal" car. SUVs... I'd avoid them because if you make a mistake driving an SUV, you'll probably live but you will kill everything within 2 counties and that's a tough thing to live with for the rest of your life even if it wasn't 100% your fault.
4. Good for driving around friends. Again, the accord is great for this...
5. Can be easily modified if you have some spare cash. Lots of people modify accords, so there should be lots of options at reasonable prices.
6. I prefer and highly recommend learning in a rear-wheel drive car, but I just don't know of many reasonably priced reliable rear wheel drive sedans out there. The safety and reliability of a V6 accord pretty much trumps the rear wheel drive, at least for a first car, in my opinion.
After you drive that a while, get a real car, like a used V8 camaro or mustang
