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Offline Flipperk

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Graduated, life gets real...
« on: June 07, 2009, 02:12:57 PM »
Well on thursday june 4th, 2009 I graduated from Clear Brook High School at 8:15PM. An important step in my life I now face going to college and finding a career. However, its summer and college isnt till september so I will enjoy my vacation and continue to go to work at my job as a supervisor at the kroger company. I am not sure if I should be scared or happy, all I know is im confused at what to think at this point, im not exactly sure what I want to do, all I want to do is have a happy, healthy family...and thats all I want out of life
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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #1 on: June 07, 2009, 02:24:14 PM »
You have good reason to be apprehensive. You have just left the last school environment where entitlement to passing is the norm. High school is no longer a real prep for college, you have just fulfilled an administrative goal, not necessarily a real educational achievement. In college there is no concern if you pass or fail as far as the school is concerned, just that you paid your tuition and fees.

College in and of itself is not terribly difficult, at first. It is heads and shoulders above a public high school in expectations and work load. Be prepared to write numerous papers and demonstrate more than the typical command of proper English language skills in written form. Do not engage in procrastination and the work load will be far easier to manage. Be prepared to read the material and be tested on what you read as much as what was lectured in the classroom. If you do not understand something, ask about it. Do not expect the teacher (usually a grad student rather than a real prof in the first couple years) to do a recap of the pertinent points. If you fall behind it's expected that you take responsibility to bring yourself up to speed.

Congrats on your graduation and welcome to the adult world. It's not the "real world" as it's still school but it's a heck of a lot closer than HS is.
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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #2 on: June 08, 2009, 12:38:17 AM »
I will be going into my sophomore year of college in the fall so I know what it was like in the first year.

Depends on your major, depends on your workload.  Im a biology/pre-med major and honestly, there was only one class that gave me trouble.  That class was engineering calc something I didnt need to take as a biology major and shouldnt have taken it.  My science classes were really easy.  You would think you would write a lot of papers but honestly I didnt.  The only class I wrote papers for was English and was 4 papers per semester. 

First year really isn't that bad.  I dont know how your school works but at my school you get to choose your roommate and post basically full bios about yourself so you know what your roommate is like.  Its not a must but if you can choose your roommate I would choose one that will be in similar classes or same major.  I spent a lot of time with the engineers with a group of 6 or 7 of us working on calc work.  My roommate was a criminal justice major and his schedule and mine were completely different as well as our work. 

I dont know if you will be involved in athletics in college but it honestly helped me.  Im on the football team and there are so many people there that are there to help you whether it be teammates, coaches, and there are so many other options to help out.  The biggest thing imo is having older teammates that have been through it and are able to help by giving advice or helping with your work by pointing in the right direction.  Get involved in as many things as you can while you are on campus whether it be athletics or clubs.  I myself am also apart of the pre-med club and it helps with my major a lot with a lot of people in the club that can help me as they have already taken classes that I have taken.  Every school has a club for each major and I highly advise you join the club that is for your major.

When you pick your classes do not overload your schedule.  Make sure it is nicely balanced and have some easy and hard courses.  I had and will have 8 AMs every day and honestly those are probably the worst classes.  You will be up late at night doing work and having to get up early in the morning so I would avoid them if you can.  A lot of people do take naps during the day so if you give some time between classes it will further help or give you time to study before a class.  Also when you pick classes, go to the site ratemyprofessors.com.  Students who have had a professor write what the teacher was like and what the class is like.  Very helpful to get a easier teacher and say how boring or interesting the class is.

Like mentioned above make sure you do stay on top of your work and do not procrastinate.  I was still adjusting my first semester and it didnt go as well as I had hoped.  First semester I learned you have to stay on top of the work or you do fall behind especially teachers like to give big projects or papers at the same time so make sure you plan yourself out well.  You will most likely have a online classroom base where professors post homework and other things.  If they post online quizzes to practice for a exam, do them over and over as they will help and a lot of the questions in those quizzes professors use for their exams.

College is fun and its a new experience.  Dont do anything dumb during the week such as drinking as it does cause a distraction even on the "Thirsty Thursday" and a lot of professors assign exams on Friday.  Save the party activities for Saturday and honestly its a good idea to only party on Saturday.
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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2009, 07:00:33 AM »
Be careful man...
Pretty soon, you'll have a job, and a mortgage, and have to pay taxes too...
Then there is the whole, "kids thing"....

Before ya know it, you'll be a republican!

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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #4 on: June 08, 2009, 11:41:51 AM »
Grads. Tomorrow you'l find that your 40 and wonder what happened?
I've been wonder that for the last 15 years.   :O
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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #5 on: June 08, 2009, 01:02:13 PM »
I graduated the day after you. Welcome to the club, friend.
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« Reply #6 on: June 08, 2009, 03:17:36 PM »
Congratulations on your graduation!  :aok
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Offline uptown

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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #7 on: June 09, 2009, 06:48:10 AM »
Well on thursday june 4th, 2009 I graduated from Clear Brook High School at 8:15PM. An important step in my life I now face going to college and finding a career. However, its summer and college isnt till september so I will enjoy my vacation and continue to go to work at my job as a supervisor at the kroger company. I am not sure if I should be scared or happy, all I know is im confused at what to think at this point, im not exactly sure what I want to do, all I want to do is have a happy, healthy family...and thats all I want out of life
It sounds like you're off to a good start already. I went to school with a guy that started as a bagboy in a large grocery store in Missouri. 25 years after graduation he's on the board of directors for one of the largest grocery store chains in the mid-west (Gerbes).
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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #8 on: June 09, 2009, 11:23:55 AM »
just got accepted at a job at kelsey seybold medical clinic here in houston as customer service...IE make appointments answer questions ect. 13/hour starting 20 hours a week...after 6 weeks if i have shown i have done well i will be bumped up to 40 hours a week
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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #9 on: June 09, 2009, 12:16:53 PM »
i haven't actually started looking for a job for various reasons, but I managed to earn a certificate that guaruntees job interviews at all of the industrial workplaces in three counties. It's a handy boost at least.
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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #10 on: June 09, 2009, 01:19:49 PM »
Congratulations...but just be glad you didn't just graduate college...hello fry cook  :( :D

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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #11 on: June 09, 2009, 04:00:57 PM »
Congrats, I recommend you Drink every moment possible and have alot of meaningless sex, but have your priorities straight and study when its needed. :cool:

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Re: Graduated, life gets real...
« Reply #12 on: June 09, 2009, 04:14:26 PM »
Can't drink legally for another three years, myself.
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