As AKDogg once told me, he never moves the stick quickly. If you don't move the stick rapidly, you won't get into the stall you're fighting to begin with. The only time I've ever gotten the message is when I tried to get it. I've literally never gotten it during a fight, regardless of the aircraft involved. Stop moving the controls so rapidly and you won't get into the stall and you won't see the message and your performance will increase.