There was nothing in my post that disagrees with anything in yours Drano.
If you haven't been attacked by T+60 something has gone wrong. Probably the attackers got hit on the way in or got lost. It's still on them to try. Stuff happens.
On the other hand, if you've forced the attackers away from the target so that they have to regroup, you've still been attacked. In fact you've excelled at your job. They may get in a second go before the hour or maybe just after, that's good. You don't have to go looking for a fight, it keeps on getting up off the floor and coming back. Conceivably you could keep them away all night. In such a case you clearly win. It's possible, if you are good at your job, that not a single bomb hits the target over 2 hours, but there are still a reasonable number of survivors on both sides. They are the long immersive fights that make the game so good.
Looking for and finding target damage before the hour definitely proves a target was attacked. Not finding any bomb damage does not, however, prove that a target was not attacked.
I have made multiple attacks on targets before the hour and not been able to force my way in. Sometimes I have been able to pull back, hold, reform and re-engage. Sometimes I have been wiped out. Clearly I don't get any bombs on target at all in the latter case. In both cases I have attacked and attacked on time. On other occasions, I have been hit hard by a strike group coming the other way. On several occasions, particularly with Jabo missions, we have had to ditch ord and fight a running battle all the way back to help. Soon as we could, we reloaded and headed out on the original mission again. If we were then to arrive at our target at T+75, we at least have tried to give the defenders there a fight. If we had kept our ord and waddled about til all were destroyed, we wouldn't have got to the target at all and the defenders would have had a pointless night circling about for an attack that is never coming.
My point is that the logs are not the sole definitive answer. It is about intent.
Falcon's post says a lot to me about the Ju87 attack. He was running from the enemy planes that were on station. He was already attacking at that time. They were trying to preserve their strike force to hit the ships as effectively as possible, perhaps trying to vector in escorts. After nearly an hour parading about in a Ju87 they might have wanted to just bomb and get out of there. They saw a chance to get through and did so, albeit with losses. If they hadn't dived etc.. they may have become pointless cannon fodder.
If they had been intercepted before the ships had been found, their escort gone, what then? It is not their responsibility to sit quietly and provide kills for Hurricanes. In fact it is their responsibility to survive. They are entitled to fight for their survival, ditch ord and run. The defenders win at this point because the attack is stopped. That's clear. No bomb will strike home in the first hour. They did attack however, even though they never sighted a target. If they then had a few survivors who were willing to go back for a second run then they are also doing the right thing. In such a case the first bombs on target might not fall until T+90. An argument might be made that they hadn't attacked until that time if just the logs were used. It would be a false argument.
My one point is this:
It's all about intent, leave it to the CMs. The logs do not reveal all.