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[CAP1]

Hey Cap, leave it alone.

His wife and family are going through a rough enough time and really don't need any support other than what they are undoubtedly already getting.

If you are just an acquaintance to them it's best if you make an appearance at any memorial or service they may have and don't be too obtrusive.

I understand your feelings ...I really do...but let the family grieve.

hope I didn't come across here as negative to you. Your heart is in a good place.

RTR

nope. not negative at all. i haven't had to deal with things like this often'(thankfully), and really don't know the right things to do.....so any and all advice is appreciated.

[RTR]

nope. not negative at all. i haven't had to deal with things like this often'(thankfully), and really don't know the right things to do.....so any and all advice is appreciated.

No worries Cap, I have had to deal with this kind of thing at least a couple of times from both ends.

There really is no right answer.

Just listen to your heart and common sense I guess.

Whatever you decide you need to do will be okay, I'm certain.

take care,
RTR