Thanks for the input Baumer, but I don't think that the flap/combat-trim combination is the reason for that strange stalling behavior.
Here i have another film, finally I could recreate it offline. I still have no idea what triggers this stall. On this film I have made 3 stalls:
http://www.netcologne.de/~nc-vreckova/stallop1.ahf1. 1 notch flap, combat-trim, all the way through stall and recovery. Using the standard technique (rudder opposite to spin, cutting throttle) recovery was quite easy.
2. No flaps, combat-trim, all the way through stall and recovery. Here I just used opposite rudder, full throttle. As the plane picks up speed when the nose points down, full control returns and i can pull out without any problem.
3. No flaps, no CT, plane trimmed for level flight. The onset of the stall is very similar to stall 2, but then...well see yourself - as the nose points down, all controls are gone. It actually looks like I'm lawndarting on purpose...but I'm desperately trying to avoid it. What I hit the ground the plane does 230 mph! At that speed it should have already plenty of authority on every control surface, but there was absolutely none.