By all means watch a show with them once in a while. Take them out to a nice dinner, Take them to a movie. IT all pays for itself in the end. But if she ever asks you, Honey does this dress make my donut look fat?" I can promise you that is a trick question. The proper answer is NO. Do not let yourself answer off handedly, because you are watching TV, or are just bored from waiting for her to get dressed. When this question Pops its ugly head up DO NOT answer,"Mabey it is not the Dress.", as you half heartedly look up from the newspaper, or your manly paperback, like Aces High, The Mosquito Fleet, or Death Squadron.