I have no problem with vulgar or obscene language, or profanity or curses, or "taking the lord's name in vain", or "drawing a picture of the prophet".. The fact there are words in any language that repulse or otherwise anger and irritate other people into a frenzy has boggled me since I turned 10, 25 years ago..
that said, I go by the rules.. hitech says no such language, it's his house, play by his rules. It really isn't that difficult.