Thanks ya'll for the offers..
cattb found exactly the info I needed, although I had already blocked the problem temporarly....
went back and used the Dos command uninstall -force and that finished the problem by removing any left over traces along with the Akamai control panel icon in my control panel in winXP...... then just deleted the admintool.exe file..... all is good.. all is clean.....
am a Happy Camper again........
thx again cattb........

edit: to add:
I got a return phone call from Akamai Industries, tech fella told me, Apple products, Itunes, some Adobe software, History Channel's games/features/videos, along with Flash ads, javascript & flash usage, news feeds, interactive webpages, etc... on different websites all use this download manager/P2P connection controller.... either self downloaded or downloaded without User knowing a thing..... clicking the Video or Flash movie etc, is considered giving consent to them.... bypassing the EULA, so they say......
also, if it is Client end based version ( CSD version ) it will ask you to agree to the EULA, but if it is NetSession Download Manager ( DLM ), you will not be asked for authorization to it being installed ( wahla itunes, Adobe, History Channel , etc... )
he directed me to this page ( copy & pasted info of that page below ):
http://client.akamai.com/demosThe Akamai NetSession Interface is the engine for two Akamai services and two sets of demonstrations and code examples:
Client-side Downloads (CSD) demonstrations
NetSession Download Manager (DLM) demonstrations
Similarties and Differences
CSD and NetSession DLM both use the Akamai NetSession Download Manager (DLM) API library, a JavaScript library that provides for embedding the NetSession Interface into web pages to enable single or multiple file downloads. The DLM API uses the Akamai NetSession Interface as its download engine and takes advantage of NetSession's download verification, multiple download streams, and large file capabilities. The DLM API and the NetSession Interface support peer-to-peer download capability.
Client-side Downloads offers the ability to offload a significant portion of edge delivery onto a managed and secure network of clients - using peer-to-peer delivery - to provide a lower cost download solution that respects the clients. Good uses may include software downloads, patches, and updates, background software and drivers, and downloadable video and games used by about a thousand or more people.
NetSession Download Manager is best used when unique files go to only a few users, for dynamic content that may have unique bits for each user, or streaming video.
The end user experience is similar for each. The CSD end-user is asked to agree to a EULA (end user license agreement) before the client is installed.
from what I was told, I had the Netsessions version DLM, andnot the client version CSD........
hope noone else runs into this situation......
but I do know alot of you on Aces high boards use itunes, Flash video, javascript, ad infinium.....
so Internet Surfer beware.....