No, no kidding Waystin.
Wrongway that would not help at all I'm afraid, the wingman request comes from a second account that sits in the tower on your own team. Firstly the position of him is irrelevant (he's just the AWACS display) and secondly one can not make a connection between him and a stalker, as Waystin called it.
I can absolutely understand the suggestions of paranoia. Only those that have experienced this first hand can tell you just how creepy some players can be, and the lengths they will go to. Relogging, switching to the third country, taking small breaks, flying different aircraft from your favourite one, having a friend fly your favourite one near you in your paint scheme while you fly his in his paint scheme, and even doing all of this for hours on end will not work to deter a dedicated griefer. He can find you immediately at any time in any furball, any group of winging aircraft, or in any place you go to alone on the map regardless of what aircraft you are flying.
Denying a wingman request will not stop unreasonable behaviour, but it will remove the mechanistic advantage such a player has by exploiting certain features of the game that were intended for other purposes, and protect the privacy of players who are simply trying to fight fairly.
I was still hoping for an answer to my question, regardless of HTC's official policy, does the community consider the abuse of the wingman command with a second account to be cheating?