i dont even have any children....i got a girl pregnant once and forced her to abort
Although I don't really support abortion for just birth control reasons, I have to reconsider my position in this instance as it was clearly a "game-changer", in your case! Now just how did you "force" her to abort? IMHO, nobody has the power to "force" anybody to do this. I would suspect that the girl in question actually "woke up and smelled the coffee", and took appropriate action.
All the Best...
Jay