grade2= weakest;
grade 5= average bolt strength
grade 8= hardened, and highest tensile strength of the 3.
If it is holding together something relatively light, and is not bearing a significant load, then grade 2 will suffice. If there is any weight to it, or if it is going to hold something more than 5-10lbs, then just use grade5. 5 is most likely what your hardware store is going to carry. You will only need to use grade 8 if what your building needs to hold up your house, or your car, or a school bus....... you get the point.

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