Ok Dadsguns, here you go. I traced to your IP address (hop #2 in your trace).
traceroute 68.10.14.85
traceroute to 68.10.14.85 (68.10.14.85), 30 hops max, 40 byte packets
1 206.16.60.46 (206.16.60.46) 0.378 ms 0.297 ms 0.236 ms
2 mdf001c7613r0002-gig-10-2.dal1.attens.net (63.241.193.17) 0.275 ms 0.277 ms 0.262 ms
3 gar23.dlstx.ip.att.net (12.122.254.153) 2.107 ms gar23.dlstx.ip.att.net (12.122.254.189) 1.323 ms gar23.dlstx.ip.att.net (12.122.254.153) 1.037 ms
4 cr2.dlstx.ip.att.net (12.122.138.162) 19.273 ms 18.823 ms 18.908 ms
5 cr1.attga.ip.att.net (12.122.28.173) 18.314 ms 18.244 ms 18.655 ms
6 attga04jt.ip.att.net (12.122.84.113) 17.886 ms 17.869 ms 17.878 ms
7 192.205.35.218 (192.205.35.218) 18.151 ms 18.177 ms 192.205.35.214 (192.205.35.214) 18.151 ms
8 ae-27-52.car1.Atlanta4.Level3.net (4.69.150.71) 18.305 ms 18.277 ms 18.273 ms
9 COX-COMMUNI.car1.Atlanta4.Level3.net (4.53.233.130) 50.102 ms 18.234 ms 18.235 ms
10 nrfkdsrj01-ae0.0.rd.hr.cox.net (68.1.0.25) 60.701 ms 60.351 ms 60.325 ms
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Now, ask the nice Tech folks at Cox, why is it there is a router flap at hop #9, which happens to be their gateway between Level3 and themselves. If they areno responsible for it, then ask them for a phone number to Lvel3's Tech Support so you can ask them about it.
Then ask, why is it Cox cannot route to the active IP address you have, once the trace gets into their network.
Feel free to point them at this thread.
EDIT: By the way, if you are only talking to the first line of support, they are only responsible for your immedaite connection to their service. You need to be talking to a Tier 2, or higher support technician/engineer.