In a broad sense the HO shot defines the player.
1. The guy who logs on expecting a long, technical fight (that is where they get there enjoyment of the game), does not HO because it is (insert derogatory statement).
2. The guy who logs on, and just wants to kill other planes (that is where they get there enjoyment of the game) HOs because it is a fast way, although maybe low %, way of attacking.
I refuse to HO. Mostly because I think it is cheap. Do I get plowed often by the HO, sure. Do I care, not as much as I did last year when I quit looking at my KD. Whatever floats your boat. You just will never get a <S> from me for a HO, as if it means something to someone.