Penguin your logic is flawed, if there was no use for emotion, speech, argument, or thought, then they would not have evolved. Clearly these traits were the best and most desirable at various points in time for our species.
If you're arguing that life is on the whole inconsequential in the scheme of the universe, then that is obvious and anyone would agree the universe doesn't care.
For someone who is trying so hard to be scientific your views of love are completely illogical. It wasn't something we got "addicted" to and simple kept up. The most 'loving' of our species were simply the ones that survived, and so that trait is now universal.
Love, I agree, is hormones, electricity, and chemical gradients. Every perception, thought, and feeling we have takes place in our brain. Obviously love was evolutionarily useful. It was more than simply keeping the male around to protect the mother. It was everything: family structure, mother-child relationship, etc.
Knowing that love and emotions are the result of chemistry, biology, and physics doesn't make them useless, obsolete, or subject to discard, and for me personally it doesn't make it any less magical. I think it is just as wondrous and magical that real, identifiable things, atoms, quarks, etc, can create such incredibly complex and diverse biological creatures such as ourselves.