Best of luck with the new squad.
After running one for 15 years I am enjoying retirement and the position of a simple spear carrier.
My advice would be:
1. Don't take it too serious.
2. Make fun a priority.
3. Make, making friends a priority.
4. Never place AH time before the family time.
5. Ignore the egos and idiots.
6. If the truth offends, let it offend, but always be respectful.
7. Don't put up with drama. Just boot them out and move on.
8. Humility will carry you a long way and not give your enemy any ammunition.
Much of what you posted suggests you already have most of it covered.
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