What I'm doing right now, I'm putting high quality wood filler into defects made by my own stupidity. I'm going to sand everything down, get the dust off with a tack cloth. I'm then going to apply the sanding sealer twice (sanding in between coats and I will also put about 5 applications on the ends).
I will then apply the paint (just a few things around the top). After all the paint dries, I will then apply the top coat of polyurethane (it is in a spray, yes, but it is the same stuff you find in a can, just in spray form). After that, I will give it a light sanding with 350-450 grit, then I'll polish it up with a terry cloth.
Pictures will definitely be posted of the finished product.
Thanks for all your input, guys, you probably saved my @rse. I wanted to make this thing right. <S>