Brooke, good point and now a deep philosophical discussion.
Take the dreaded act of HO'ing in this game. At worst, it ruins 10 minutes of your time as you have to reup, and your score will drop. Other then this, of what consequence is HO'ing at every turn? Throw in you develop a bad rap, there is not real cost.
In real life some HOs happened but because it was such a Vegas style crap shoot no one would intentionally fly their bird right into someone elses guns with the hope that they hit first. It was suicide and only done when it was unavoidable. The cost of war is removed, one action happens. The cost of war is realized, another happens.
I won't even get into the economics of our current situation, and ultimately war must be waged with maximum effeciency though there must be consequence.
Boo