Tank Ace, you don't understand the basic principle of the slots on the Bf109s. They do NOT increase wing area. They allow airflow to duct over the top of the wing preventing loss of control in a stall. Thus you retain aileron control through the stall (at least, further into it).
I haven't read this entire thread, as it bloomed into 4 pages rather fast. IMO if you're using flaps in a 109 you need to be doing one of the following:
preventing stalling out at minimum speeds
trying to dead-slow out-turn somebody with max flaps
coming over the top of a hammer head of some sort
LANDING
Emphasis on the last bit.
If you're using flaps for turn advantage when you're not at stall speed, you're doing it WRONG in my opinion. They don't work like combat flaps on F4us or P38s. You can't work them like that and expect a benefit of similar gains.
If you're in a 109 use the vertical, use your horsepower, use your tight turn radius... But flaps are 99% useless for most of my sorties. Keep in mind I've landed too many 8,10,12 kill sorties in Bf109s to count. I'm no expert but I do know a few things about flying them in the MA environment.