How often do you fly away when some has collided with you?
In my experience, they have guns blazing taking me down even if they collide. I go down they fly away. Aggravating.
I've been "collided with" from behind twice this month in my short amount of flying time. Both times I was undamaged and they went down... In one case they even apologized to me. On my end, it didn't even look like they were all that close to me... I couldn't figure out where they went.
The best solution is the way we have it now, as annoying as some situations may be. The discrepancies on each player's screen make it impossible for it to be perfectly balanced in every situation.
That is not possible if on one end there is a collision, then the other end has to collide as well.
For every action there IS a Equal and Opposite Reaction - Newton.
Latency!
You know what HTC should do? They should just get rid of collision messages. That way people stop complaining and just assume they got shot.