still missin my bro

[greens]

it has been 7 months since the loss of my bro in law, and it just gets harder everyday to cope w this loss. we had so many plans, planned this, planned that, wanted to go here and there. dam life sucks bigtime. out of all my in laws....this one kid....we were good friends in such a short ammount of time we did alot, wasnt enough, but we did do a few things together that we both had a good laugh and said hells ya that was a good nite. except one night that i regret.         

always missing my bro----- Eagles21 " Oscar Takak Jr "   Oz- Ozzie.       

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[bortas1]

it has been 7 months since the loss of my bro in law, and it just gets harder everyday to cope w this loss. we had so many plans, planned this, planned that, wanted to go here and there. dam life sucks bigtime. out of all my in laws....this one kid....we were good friends in such a short ammount of time we did alot, wasnt enough, but we did do a few things together that we both had a good laugh and said hells ya that was a good nite. except one night that i regret.         

always missing my bro----- Eagles21 " Oscar Takak Jr "   Oz- Ozzie.       

im sorry greens for your lose. lost a good friend last year still finding it hard to belive hes gone. in norman oklahoma every spring they have a medevil fair. he was in the sca and did the stick fighting thing at the fair. i will always remember him from the fair.

[ink]

I was 10 when my 14 year old brother fell from a bridge to his death,  he was my hero, my best friend, the only one in my family that did not treat me badly......
 I am 42 now....the pain will never go away, or lessen.

the only way I have been able to get beyond is to realize that he was just to good for this world.

stay strong    

[greens]

  guys, unexpected losses are the toughest.

[AHTbolt]

I feel for bud I have lost so many friends over the years ive lost count.

[Tank-Ace]

<S> greens, sorry for your loss. Thankfully I haven't lost anyone close to me, but my grandfather has been having heart problems, and had a scare with a heart-attack this past summer. Scared the crap out of me, as it wasn't untill then that truely I realized he won't be around forever. I mean I knew this intelectually, but untill something serious happens, you don't really KNOW it in your heart.



I guess I'm just approaching the age when life stops giving, and starts taking away.

[Penguin]

It's been seven months?   Though losing your brother must have really hurt you on, it's time to get help- there's no shame in it, sometimes you just can't get over a loss.  It isn't your fault that he died or that you're in so much pain, so go get some grief counseling so that you can deal with the loss and move on with your life.  Your brother in law, if he were able to observe you, would surely approve of that.  Until then, talking about the deceased helps to dull the ache, so shoot one of your buddies a PM and try to vent off some of the grief to hold you over until you can get a real examination. 

Good luck!

-Penguin