Teach me
Well, you may or may not have to lower standards...but Around here if to can talk to a girl for a month go out on a few dates (you paying for everything and driving aswell) and act like you really care you can get 'in' alot.
Seems really dirty and you may be labeled as one who 'has no standards' but it's all about what I was told as a young Robbie... "quantity over quality"
Edit: buy them some nice stuff too.