Can't say I really "hate" the =V= guys or really anyone for that matter. Heck, at the end of the day we are all just a bunch of big kiddos flying our little cartoon airplanes around. There is enough hate to go around in the real world to let anything in a "game" be a cause for more.
I do have to agree tho that the squad is a reflection of it's leadership. If you as an individual don't agree with the leadership's style, tactics, behavior... then you have a choice. Leave and go where you can be proud to be a part of another or stay and by doing so you accept what that means for you as well. It's your choice and your $15 as they say.
While I don't agree with the =V= style of play, they certinally have a right to play that way. I do think it a bit sad however that they bask in the glory of feling they are "hated" by the community. It's one thing to be hated because you are a great squad, very dominate, very skilled, and much if not overly respected by most. Yet it is another to be hated due to poor sportsmanship, inflamitory PM's, disrepectful behavior, trolling BB posts ( like this one ) and overall questionable tactics. The =V= guys seem to fall in the second catagory and to watch them chest thump, high five and celebrate in the glory of being hated for these reasons is actually kind of sad.
But again it's your guys reputation and your $15 so roll them bases and rock on !!