I wasn't referring to folks with disabilities. You are. I'm referring to the people that visit the graves of Hilter's parents. I have a half brother with a physical disability he's had since birth. But when I see the word "retard" the first picture that pops in my head isn't my brother Ricky. Apparently you have a family member with a disability and the "r-word" brings to mind this person in your life. So who has the problem here? Don't push your guilt off on me. You need to look at yourself. I can't change what pictures you associate words with. But I am sorry if you or a family member with a disability were offended. That wasn't my intent.
I'm going to light a phag and ponder your post Semp.Hold on that didn't come out right.