The obvious answer to the OP's question is no. Experience and the concept that the simplest answer to an observation is often more correct, points towards the obvious.
With our current technology you can have War Thunder like air simm games or you can have Aces High like air simm games. If you combine the two you can have a game either priced out of the reach of everyone due to a very low number of subscribers with the funds and PC's uber enough to run it. Or a limited number of players with the PC uber enough to play it. If it was doable it we wouldn't be having this conversation. We would be paying the genius who created it our $14.95 and whining at him about something else we don't have to programing skills to create for ourselves.
As for instant action and limited time. It's obvious Aces High will not support that requirement since it's arenas are populated with unherdable cats. Blaming Aces High's format for not wanting to play it due to limited personal time, is like blaming a Letcher's letching on the girl wearing the mini skirt. No game can make everyone happy, and it's not Hitech's fault your life has changed impacting your available fun time. Instant action games abound on the Internet. Why cheap shot Hitech for not reformatting his game to your changed life status.
Dear Hitech,
Please send a monthly questionnaire to all of your paying customers asking them how their life has changed in the hopes you can constantly change the game to suit their needs. Some of your customers feel it is very rude of you to not meet those needs as they neglect to update you concerning the changes in their personal status. Is it possible your mind reading equipment is in need of it's 10,000 hour overhaul? Or your genius machine from the 22nd century is malfunctioning and needs to be sent home for repairs? Oh!! And your Blatantly Obvious machine seems to be a bit out of calibration these days. I guess Skuzzy is not qualified to maintain hardware that leverages quantum mechanics and entanglement. I suppose it's a lot like herding cats trying to get all those strings back in the boxes.