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Offline JunkyII

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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #15 on: October 12, 2013, 02:42:33 PM »
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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #16 on: October 12, 2013, 02:44:49 PM »
I treat people in AH or any other online game as I would in person. The internet is just the medium through which you interact with other people in online games it isn't what you're interacting with.
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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #17 on: October 12, 2013, 02:50:44 PM »
I don't see how the medium in which I'm interacting with another person has any bearing on how I should talk to or treat them.


You're absolutely right, it shouldn't. Common decency and manners is supposed to.
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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #18 on: October 12, 2013, 02:58:02 PM »
Looks like the community is not split as evenly as it looked....hate to say this but might take Midway's advice to some and"change my ways".

I think it may be the Xbox live/ PlayStation online generation who look at the internet as it's just the internet nothing else.
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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #19 on: October 12, 2013, 02:59:26 PM »
I'm in the treat others as you would like to be treated group.  The mechanism used for communications irrelevant.  However....I do find it easier to ignore alot of what is said in game as I understand that alot of things said online would not otherwise be said face to face.  In other words the fact that we communicate from a distance with psuedonyms tends to promote bad behavior in some folks and that is a fact of life in internet gaming.  I don't have to live or work with anyone in the game so there isn't much they can say that really effects me in any way unless I allow it to effect me.  There are a few individuals who seem to feel empowered by attempting to make others mad...which is sorta sad.  I do tend to use squelch so I don't have to see or hear stuff I don't feel like seeing or hearing which removes that power over me once it becomes hard to ignore them outright.

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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #20 on: October 12, 2013, 04:27:36 PM »
I tend to be a little more aggressive or whiney as the case may be from time to time online than I am in real life but the things that happen to me in the game also don't happen to me in real life.  Usually it's just frustration.  I don't do the "persona" thing.

That said I like to play mind games with the witless whiners once they decide to start something with me but very few do anymore.
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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #21 on: October 12, 2013, 04:40:00 PM »

1.This is the internet and it can't be taken seriously [or]

2. The manner of which you conduct yourself online is the same as how you act in person.




Both. 

I expect 1 from most everyone else, while holding MYSELF to the standards of 2. 

You can't expect 2 from everyone else, because of 1.

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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #22 on: October 12, 2013, 05:02:44 PM »
Ive been flying for 10 years now and have never once insulted anyone on 100 in  warbirds or 200 AH. I treat people the way I want to be treated. If Im insulted, they aren't worth my time, I ignore them. Im here to have fun and that's it!
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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #23 on: October 12, 2013, 05:46:03 PM »
Hmm looks like the majority is leaning towards being cowardly mob monkeys who hide behind the safety of the horde... politely.

Playing style is "communication," right?

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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #24 on: October 12, 2013, 07:08:29 PM »
It's an interesting subject. When you communicate with text it's not really human communication. Seventy percent of communication is non verbal, so that leaves your imagination to fill in the other 70%. So it's sort of like an ink blot test, you project your assumptions and anxieties. In text you don't have the emotional stimulation from sight or from sound, and that's very important. For example there is something called Copgras syndrome which is caused when a specific part of the brain is damaged. What happens is vision is disconnected from emotional memory, so when the person sees a family member or anybody else that they are acquainted with, they are convinced that the person is an imposter because there is no emotionality attached to the sight of that person. If they speak with their mom on the phone for example, they know it's their mom, but when they meet they will be convinced that their mom is an imposter that looks exactly like their mother. There are very real reasons why people treat eachother so differently via text or online vs in person, or even by phone. The main reason like I said is when you communicate via text you're not really communicating with another human. I mean you are, but you aren't as far as some important parts of your brain are concerned.
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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #25 on: October 12, 2013, 08:29:21 PM »
I make banter and joking insults with my friends in real life as well. We know it's all in fun and games and we don't mean it. Same with the internet. Don't take things seriously, we're here to have fun.

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I can be extremely belligerent at times  :D :x :salute but most the time its cause it gets to be too much fun sending punches, But, Yes I have made mistakes, haven't we all... I'll still bet any person that face to face we could be best of buds but audio does me no justice    :x


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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #26 on: October 12, 2013, 08:47:51 PM »
I don't see how the medium in which I'm interacting with another person has any bearing on how I should talk to or treat them.


Yep.  Too many folks want to hide behind their 'persona' as an excuse that we should accept them as 'that's the way they are."

Being respectful an aware that you are sharing the turf with other people, is not asking to much whether it be in a game or in real life.

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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #27 on: October 12, 2013, 09:10:43 PM »
2.

I have used 1. to justify being a tard though at times, there is less pressure on the internet with the creation of handles, nicknames and personas so to speak than in real life.

How would all behave if we all had to use our full real names with a picture of ourselves as the avatar.
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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #28 on: October 13, 2013, 04:20:16 AM »
This thread thread reminds me of when a broad gets peed off about something I texteded and I have to remind her that texting isn't real life.

That's why people, myself included, find it hilarious when others get so angry over yahoo news comments, or YouTube comments or this forum or chan 200. They have lost perspective so far that they have forgotten its not real. It's like watching somebody swear and throw beer cans at the smurfs on tv.
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Re: Is the community split half and half on this issue?
« Reply #29 on: October 13, 2013, 04:58:10 AM »
I think if you are in the group of people who whine, moan, post abusive pm's, have hissy fits when others aren't doing what you want online and all the other crap .........but you only do it online but not in real life it tells me this.

You ARE a moany, whiney, abusive, spoilt, pain in the arse, its just you don't do it in the real world cos other decent people wont let you get away with it.

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