If you want it to change, you have to change.
1. If you don't help noobs, start. Ask them every time you see them if they'd like to go to the TA, not the DA. Create a culture
2. If you get HOd a lot, ask someone how they pwn a HOer.. I suggest Morfiend, Dodger, BigRat, Creton, Jetsom, need I go on?
3. If you don't like altfairies, F18SuperBrewsters, Spits and the Japanese Air Force, see #2. (Watched Creton and Nath flying an 84 and a k4 pwn two Brews last night repeatedly....great fights. Ask them or someone for help
4. If you don't like the jibberish on 200, detune it.
5. If you don't like the style of fighting, get proficient in 3 planes: the ugly, the turny and the fast. That way you can get your revenge in any situation
6. Never try to shoot down 999000. Your nuts will be sore
7. Don't practice hypocrisy. Everyone sees it and you look foolish. Goes to culture. If you're an E fighter, wear it proudly, if you're a runner, fly those colors...cuz everyone knows the troof.
8. For Gawds sake get tougher...it's a game. If you get your panties ruffled over anything in this toon world, you need to talk to someone.
Bottom line: be part of the solution through your actions. You'd be surprised how many people will be nice if you're nice. Nice doesn't equal silence. You can't silently change the culture in this game because we can't see anyone. Leadership is about influence, not authority.
Edit: I am not nice all the time. I know this. I will try harder