You may not be advocating it in so many words, but you're championing the use of it here and seem to choose that tactic in the MA more than most... especially more than most who now hang their hats on their 1v1 fighting prowess.
So showing logically why it's a valid tactic, and then demonstrating that I dont need it to win, is "championing the use of it"? Yet again, not true.
I'm more interested in showing HO complaints for what they are (excuses) than I am in championing the use of it, as I've already demonstrated I can fly just fine 1v1 without front-quarter shots.
So it's all about efficiency to you. To you the actual engagement is meaningless unless you win?
More or less, yes.
70 years of military training materials? Awesome. Do you get your stick settings from those manuals too? Does it have anything in there about icon range and what the plus or minus symbol on them mean? 
It's a game dude. You can be the ruthless HO'ing sack of $%&@ if you want, but don't try to make the act of HO'ing some honorable thing because real men with real lives on the line did it however many times. Also, don't confuse the act of HO'ing as being one of the least skilled ways of killing people (and thus lameville) with "everyone who HO's, ever, ever, is less than skilled". It doesn't work that way. Winning an engagement by playing chicken with bullets is not skillful. For many of us, it ain't fun either. For you though... maybe you like it. You have to like something about it with all the hours you've logged, right?
So if we can both agree that skilled players can indeed HO, what then is the problem? If you would lose to X player whether they chose to HO you, turnfight you, or energy fight you, what does it matter? In the end, you still lose.
This is the fundamental issue you seem to repeatedly ignore. You are illogically placing some sort of arbitrary weight to your losses based on how you lost, when in reality a loss is a loss. It doesn't matter how you lost, you simply lost.
Also, you've logged many more hours in this game than I have, so I fail to see whatever point you were reaching at.
Our duels proved that on that particular night, you were better at doing what you do than I was. They don't lend you any credibility (parenthetical conversation time - our duels are irrelevant to this discussion) in anything other than being a good judge of energy and thus being able to stall out after your opponent. A good skill to have and effective for sure, but if it were me I'd be careful about hanging my hat on it.

Ah, so take away my apparent reliance on HO'ing (again, your words) and now the only reason I won was my energy retention. And this is the core of your argument - you are yet again trying to categorize a loss by creating a singular excuse as to why the other person beat you.
Instead of saying "he only won because he HO'd," now you're saying "he only won because he held his E better." What happens when I beat you in sustained-rate 8-minute-long flat turns (you think E-fights are boring)? Are you going to claim then that I only won because I "flat turned better"?
In the end, it's an excuse, just like complaining about HO'ing is an excuse. ACM provides solutions for virtually every neutral scenario you enter. What happens afterwards is the result of your decisions. If you lose to a HO, or a turnfight, or an E fight, you didn't lose because of your opponent, you lost because you simply failed to apply ACM correctly.
You can't lose because of your opponents actions, you can only lose because of your actions. If you are losing an E fight, it's not because you didn't hold your E well enough, it's because you chose the wrong tactics to start with. Likewise, if you lose to a HO or a turnfight or any other kind of tactic, it's because you chose the wrong tactics.
Really, that's all there is to it.