ya know, if my memory is serving me correctly, I recall a few times I took up winging with DREDIOCK, and we always had fun... regardless of the odds or the hordes........
we held true covering each other and bringing our scalps home to land, it has been many many years, but DRED was a hell of a wingman (Pardner), that
I truly enjoyed winging with, gosh that seems like over 10 years ago if I really think bout it...
TC <--- who thinks is too much in the sauce at the moment, heh!
It probably does. You're a known commodity which are the ones I prefer to wing with either by design or chance. With known commodities you know you are with someone you can trust to work with you. With the unknowns. Well. you just dont know what you are going to get. If you are going to get your 6 cleared or just be used as unwitting bait. Are they going to suddenly up and leave without warning? Are they going to communicate with you something that you may not see or what they are doing or what they need you to do? Are they going to help you to help them? If you put your arse on the line to save them will they do likewise?
With unknowns you just dont know.
Some advice for the new guys. Become known. More importantly, become known as an asset. Someone that can be counted on in a fight.
Dont just fly by that 3 V 1. Dive into the fray to help out even if its not always in your best personal interests or original intentions.
Communicate. Using people as bait is fine but call out what you need someone to do. Help them help you.
And if they tell you to do something in trying to help you. Do it. Learn to trust them and they will learn to trust you.
Communicate your intentions. Learn to set the person you are with up. And he will do likewise.
Examples
Skinny - "Hey Fatso. I'm comming in on that spit on your 6"
Fatso -"Ok thanks. He seems target fixated and I dont think he see's you Im going to take take him up in an immelman/hard climb sharp left/right whatever"
Your wingman now knows what to expect and what the opponents likely moves are going to be and can act accordingly
Another is the guy helping you but because of whatever reason, speed, angle, alt people on him whatever may need you to do something to help you
Fatso- Im comming in to help out with that Dora, take him on a slow turn to the left." (or whatever direction or move he requests)
If possible. Do it. A turn to the left doesnt mean turn right, split S, Immelman or hard climb. It means turn left. Its of no help to either of you if requested to do one thing you do another.
You will in time become amazed at what a couple of people communicating and working as a team can accomplish. It takes trust and communication and most important. Participation.
Become known as an asset and you will find your efforts returned 10 fold
Will it always work in your favor? Nope. sometimes you will die anyway or die for your efforts while the helping the other person survive. And sometimes the person you are with will.
But you will become known and find other people more willing to work with you.