It is not server related and your personal connection to your ISP is about 1% of the potential problem.
Right now the Internet in the U.S. is under about a 35% increase in load due to Windows 10 downloads. As Microsoft is doing that in a regional manner, expect problems to come to any given area soon, if it has not already hit you.
Yes, I would like to call Microsoft and tell them to cease and desist the downloads, as it is impacting our players, but I am pretty sure they will not pay attention to me.
If you want to isolate where the problem may be happening, it is as simple asd grabbing the free version of Ping Plotter and running it to any of the server IP addresses (see
Internet sticky in this forum for those numbers). If you do it right after a disco, you will have the best chance of catching where the problem is.
The goal is to have no entries in the "PL%" column. Of course there will be "100%" entries in that column which can ignored as it simply means that router is not honoring the "ECHO ICMP" message Ping Plot uses for its network tracing.