Same here, If I don't play from work, I fly AH a few hours a month if any. I used to spend hours on games like COD/GTA/FORZA/SKYRIM and early MMOs. Really cheap and exciting entertainment. My worst was 41H straight in Falcon 3.
Two things. For our generation playing online 'affordably' was always a dream, everything was single gaming. So office LAN parties were step 1, MMOs step 2 our of childhood fantasies. Now it's been there done that.
The other side of the coin, at least for me is video games are really a time killer at best. Having more disposable income, my life is busy. I always have something to do. Or I deal with work, or rebuild one of my car, or I'm working on my house, or I'm working on my land ... my favorite free time is to go hike a mountain, go explore the desert with my wife. When I'm sitting it is to read/learn about how to do something. I don't even have cable TV, I don't go to the movies and I occasionally watch/rent something. Same boredom, movies genres feel so scripted that you have seen that before.
With gaming, I still enjoy it immensely and there are extraordinary games out there but I feel bad if I sit for too long, like I'm wasting my life waiting to die.
Don't feel bad about your lack for skill level, like everything, someone spending gazilion of hours on something will get God like at it (like my 12 YO nephew at COD Ghost) ... but he can have it. As he is busy parading his ubberness on a virtual scoreboard and Youtube, I built a couple of things that will still be around for a few years.