Neither mine, nor your friends experience in any aircraft has anything to do with it. I certainly do not trust your opinion concerning sounds in comparison to my own experience. If it were me I would record the interior of aircraft with my own equipment. I have already done this on a number of occasions. Tanks, airplanes, guns, . . . and I know why some recordings sound differently from aircraft to game. I know that most pilots in WWII fighters fly with their ears just inches from the canopy. A microphone in that situation is going to record the canopy more than it is the engine. However, neither you, your friend, or myself can tell what the airplane would sound like without that noise in close proximity to your ear. In fact, I would dispute that your friend ever heard it at all. You see, most people wear some form of hearing protection, and in that event even a microphone that is recording primarily noise interference patterns is still more accurate than what you thought you heard.
I trust my equipment and recording abilities much, much further than anyone's opinion.