The last scenario I flew in (2 ago)
I want you to have fun and to play in scenarios.
Many of the things you say you don't like are determined, though, by the sides, their commanders, and the players. A design can put in historical planes, historical alts, reasonably historical goals, and have at least some historical missions constraints (like requiring at least a couple of bombing and a couple of attack missions), and make sides numerically balanced.
But things like who flies escort, how, whether they get outnumbered or not, are things determined by a side's choices.
I spent the majority of the scenario furballing, outmatched, on the deck in a historically mid alt bomber killer.
If you are talking about Dnieper, the real battle was largely low-alt dogfights. Being outmatched or not depends on how your side recruited to fill groups and how it arranged its planes, as each side was designed to have equal numbers.
If we ever did get alt we always knew where the enemy and our own guys were (unless they were NOE) because there was dot dar everywhere.
For Dnieper, there was dot radar only above 15k as a disincentive to be flying above 15k -- because the actual battle had very little of that because of weather, lack of in-cockpit GPS, not knowing precise locations of every target on the map, and so on. Sector counters were for people above 1k -- because the actual battle had radar sites around, which is why radar was in the scenario.
Here are references I consulted in working on the design, searching them for types of fights, alt of fights, etc. for this particular battle:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Battle_of_the_Dnieper (Battle of the Dnieper)
Gunther Rall, by Amadio
Luftwaffe Fighter Ace, by Norbert Hanning
German Aces Speak, by Heaton and Lewis
Attack of the Airacobras, by Loza and Gebhardt
Bomber Pilot on the Eastern Front, by Reshetnikov
Red Star Against the Swastika: the story of a Soviet pilot over the Eastern Front, by Emalianenko
Il-2 Shturmovik, by Moore
Over Fields of Fire: Flying the Sturmovik in action on the Eastern Front, by Timofeeva-Egorova
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYg2cJIAQr4 (KG 3 on Eastern Front)
I haven't decided yet if I'll fly in the next scenario or not
I hope that you do.
but, as Brooke pointed out; who cares?
That's not what I pointed out. What I said was that your absence won't teach any lessons to people whose style of play you don't like -- what you will do is harm the people who enjoy flying with you. There are people who enjoy your company in scenarios. Those are the ones you harm by leaving.
I hope that you do play.