First, have fun playing.
Second, do not let the opinions of strangers on the web matter. If you are having trouble with this, turn 200 off and squelch those that try to evoke a response from you. They'll get over it.
I get mad at runners sometimes if it seems to be happening consistently but that's not their problem, it is mine. Every player and side enjoys the high horse when the cards are up but boy do they call foul when the tables are turned.
Fly to the best of your abilities and improve as you go
