My wife and I took care of my dad for 4 months. Brought him up to Ohio from N. Carolina to care for him. Wiped his arse every day until he passed. Then wifes mom lived here for 6 months after that. In home dialysis machine every night and morning. Now my mom who lived here for 13 months (91) had to go to rehab. Corvid19 hit. I have not been able to see her since March.
It all sucks. But that is no reason to say things online that you would not want a young grandchild to hear. I have 15 grandkids and I need to use a headphone so when they are here they do not hear what I hear.