You're giving too much safe space to the locusts,
That isn't my intention. I'm not making a judgement one way or another.
Ranting is fine. But like Eagler, sometimes you need to stop chasing something you are obviously not going to get. At some point you should realize when you are wasting your time.
You fish? If you are fishing a spot and not getting hits, you shouldn't waste too much time stubbornly pounding that patch of water with a lure. You are much better off quickly deciding to move to another spot. Keep moving until you hit a honey pot. Then enjoy. I'll give a spot 20 min max and then move on if I'm not getting action. Because staying tin the same non-productive spot yelling at the water for the fish to play the way I want makes me look silly.
Or figure out a way to solve the problem that really works.
Honestly, I think it has always been this way. It's just at these numbers it becomes more noticeable. Like lowering the water level in a river exposes the rocks that were always there.
When there were 500 players in the Melee you didn't notice because when they tried to run there was likely someone else in their way to stop them or there was always another nearby target to switch to.