Again, the mindset of a Gamer -vs- Simmer.
Gamers are all about points snd exploits, nothing else matters.
Simmers are into historical nostalgia and learning and reliving history. 
The divide cannot be deeper.
One is right as a gamer. 
The other is right as a simmer. 
A gamer mindset is more likely to P-off a simmer, and laugh about it, then repeat for more laughs and whipping the bird.  A gamer sees p-off someone as a victory.
Like it or not, that’s reality.