I will be honest, I am totally surprised you can do online gaming with starlink. I had Hughesnet for several years while traveling the country. It was OK for browsing the net and e-mail but that was all. Went to tethering my phone to the PC once it got to 4G everywhere.
Really unhappy with windstream internet but that is all that's available in my location and I need it because I'm also in a cell dead zone and the verizon cell booster requires an internet connection.
Never had Windstream or Hughes (or whatever), but I did use it some via work. Starlink is a whole other universe. Granted, I've never had fully unobstructed reception, but it ~was~ very good before they upgraded... once they upgraded, I got a new obstruction that was WAY worse than what I had before. It's nuts, but even now the conx is very good in between the 15min (appx) disco. Even then, I barely notice it unless I'm gaming. Youboob vids will occasionally hiccup but it's barely noticable... like a 5sec pause. DL's are fine, when it discos it auto-resets anyway.
Here's a comparison (Ping to HTC)
ADSL: Approximate round trip times in milli-seconds:
Minimum = 67ms, Maximum = 104ms, Average = 83ms
Starlink: Approximate round trip times in milli-seconds:
Minimum = 77ms, Maximum = 99ms, Average = 88ms