3 million people work for the Federal government.
https://data.bls.gov/dataViewer/view/timeseries/CES9091000001You vote to elect 5 of them: President, VP, 2 Senators, 1 Representative.
The other 99.9989% of Federal officials/employees are appointed.
About 100,000+ (probably more like 500,000+) of those 3 million Federal employees have access to confidential information on citizens (various folks in IRS, DHS, FBI, OPM, SSA, HHS, etc.).
So, getting worked up about one out of those 100,000+ people (whom you otherwise seemingly aren't bothered by in the slightest) is due to either low information, being susceptible to manipulation by a group that knows how to manipulate, or being a willing participant in spreading the meme.