Great post.
SLO,
A lot of WWII veterans from all countries have forgiven their former enemies and even met and become friends. Some still remain bitter, which is also understandable. If former enemies can forgive each other for the past, why can't we? There is a difference between forgiving and respecting a LW pilot (or mechanic, or cook) and forgiving a high ranking concentration camp officer.
One thing to keep in mind is that all nations have participated in very shameful activities during wartime. Don't think that just because you are Canadian, all military actions of your country have always been 100% pure and right!
And, most nations have forced many of their citizens into serving for military duty. All nations have also had many people serve their military for patriotic reasons. Either way, you can't blame a guy for fighting for his country.
A lot of Nazis did a lot of really awful things, but that doesn't make all Germans, or anyone remotely related, bad.
Finland stood up to Russia instead of allowing themselves to be walked on. Who can blame them for doing anything else.
eskimo