"He is a nice guy while I am obviously.... not. "
Actually. I can be a real a-hole too and at times I am only all too ready to prove it

FWIW, my apology above is to ALL here even though I mentioned two specifically. It was sincere but mind you it is only in that I'm sorry for what happened did and for my involvment with it. Of course others actions and deeds are totally beyond my control which is what got us there to begin with. The apology was unconditional and I feel no need of a group hug (touch me and yer dead!) nor do I put much weight behind letting by gones be by gones. Damage done and nothing wil change that. Grudges and apologies have nothgin in common and one doesn't rid the other. My opinion of several folks remains the same also and truth be told if some other yahoos were to come in the AH ubb four months from now I'd probably slap em down the same way. Except I don't see Fighter Ace folding too soon. I also told several folks (squaddies) I won't get involved in romper room squabbling again
Here's to peace, love and sending lead up yer arse!
Westy