DEAR ABBY
I have been engaged for almost a year. I am to be married next month. My fiancee's mother is not only very attractive but really great and understanding. She is putting the entire wedding together and invited me to her place to go over the invitation list because it had grown a bit beyond what we had expected it to be.
When I got to her place we reviewed the list and trimmed it down to just under a hundred ... then she floored me.
She said that in a month I would be a married man and that before that happened, she wanted to have sex with me. Then said to meet her in her bedroom. On her way out of the living room, she said that I knew where the front door was if I didn't want to go through with it.
I stood there for a couple of minutes and finally decided what I had to do. I headed out the front door and there, leaning against my car was her husband, my future father-in-law. He was smiling. He explained that they just wanted to be sure I was a good kid and would be true to their little girl. He congratulated me on passing their little test.
Abby, should I tell my fiancee' what her parents did, and that I
thought their "little test" was asinine and insulting to my character? Or, should I keep the whole thing to myself, particularly the fact that the reason I was walking out to my car was to get a condom?
Uncertain.
