"They" and "them" are perfectly acceptable pronouns used to describe a specific group to which I do not belong. I am not wholey white, I am male, and I am a US citizen. I will never be female, liberal, a child molestor, or a drug addict, so I will use "them" and "they" occasionally when I refer to "them".
Mebbe you can get one of those hypersensitive AGW guys to take a long walk down a beach with you, hold you through the night to assauge your tears, or haul me out into the hallway to rough me up a bit for traumitizing you with those words.