Having someone call you a cheater is great, cherish it.
Since you have achieved that, I submit to you a new goal: piss someone off enough (as in kill them mercilessly and repeatedly over a short time span) for them to tune their vox to you and verbally harass you!
This isn't easy, as it takes a special kind of target who is willing to take it all the way. I have done it though, first by vulching the individual incessantly, then when his base gains enough momentum for him to get airborne, single him out as much as possible. If you begin to receive insults over channel one you know you are doing good, especially if the word "honor" is used.
In order to push my victim over the edge, I upped a tempest to the growing furball between our two bases. I singled him out like before and blew out one of his two p-38 engines. He begins his rtb and I kill a few more of his teammates. Once you do that, this is the clincher, track down his limping aircraft, preferably when he is real close to base, and let him have it for the umpteenth time.
Presto! He tunes his vox personally to you and you can delight in hearing a frothing young adult spewing things at you such as:
"Who do you think you are!?!?"
and
"Don't you know who I am!?!?"
and my favorite
"First I'm gonna kill that 109, then you're next buddy! Don't run you *****, I'm gonna nail your *** to the.......... F***!!!!!"
Last expletive being generated by me shooting him down again.