In the USA during WWII, the Battle of the Bulge was of very great concern to the average American. Many felt if we lost that battle, we would lose the war with Germany. U-boats routinely patrolled within a mile of the (Atlantic) Florida beach. The coast was littered with sunken ships, some of them visible...sinking 300 yards off the beach. People were very worried about this situation.
I have a hard time with the Dresden "accusation" being leveled at the United States and Great Britain. I cannot speak for Europeans, because they live there and I don't, and possibly see it differently than I do. However, I will not abide an American citizen using Dresden to put down the US and UK. Typically, imho those (American citizens) who attempt this, are college professors, safe and smug in their ivory tower.
As terrible as the bombing of Dresden was, I have to ask, what purpose is gained by denigrating the valiant bomber crews who went and did it? It is absolutely reprehensible to call airplane bombing "murder." It was war.
Les