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Offline StSanta

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« Reply #90 on: February 04, 2003, 06:54:52 AM »
Read 'noodle' Puke :D

Offline H. Godwineson

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« Reply #91 on: February 04, 2003, 10:20:09 AM »
See how dirty and perverted you guys are?!  I was REFERRING to the computer screen!  

In my neck of the woods what YOU were referring to was called the one-eyed pet.

Sakes!  Is that all you big city boys THINK ABOUT?  Ya'll need some serious counseling about your preeversions!

Concerned, Shuckins

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« Reply #92 on: February 04, 2003, 10:34:33 AM »
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Thats ok.
It was a task that required parents of a higher level of intellect, in order for me as a child to not feel superior to my caretakers and growing bitter, turning into a Goth or something similar.

Thats why the higher power did not choose you ;)


Oh I agree! You certainly do lack common sense...I'll take a parent with common sense anyday over one with intellect. ;)

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« Reply #93 on: February 04, 2003, 12:00:31 PM »
Of course your a bad parent.

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« Reply #94 on: February 04, 2003, 12:07:47 PM »
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Of course your a bad parent.


I'll do it for you, MT:

"Its YOU'RE, as in 'You are' "

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« Reply #95 on: February 04, 2003, 12:10:03 PM »
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Oh I agree! You certainly do lack common sense...I'll take a parent with common sense anyday over one with intellect. ;)



Your kids are not allowed to have or play video games BUT they sure can play Aces High because You like that one.

Sure, thats some great common sense Rip.

Aces High is as dumb, as violent, and as time consuming as most video games. And I hope you squelch Channel 1 for them, or it can get downright absurd.

You just dont have the common sense to choose the right games, so you ban consoles altogether.

Well, at least its better than letting them play Grand Theft Auto 3 all day without supervision.

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« Reply #96 on: February 04, 2003, 12:22:05 PM »
Actually, I think console games are more addicting, Animal.  My son has a collection of WW2 books (written for youngsters) as a result of flight simulators...would they have that for, say, Frogger? ;)  I'm sure that he could probably tell someone more about specifications of WW2 aircraft than you could.  Come to think of it, I'm certain of it.

But if it makes you feel better at criticizing my parental habits, go for it dude!  Sounds like you need alittle mental "lift" in your life. ;)
« Last Edit: February 04, 2003, 12:26:11 PM by Ripsnort »

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« Reply #97 on: February 04, 2003, 12:44:46 PM »
Its not that I dont respect your methods and beliefs as a parent - your arguement about video games and kids is sensible, its just that its not consistent. The fact that you post it on a video game forum is ironic.

And there is no 'lift' in telling you that I see a glaring contradiction in your conviction, how can I get a lift from trying to put sense on someone who is so close minded.

You didnt make this post for discussion like one would tend to believe in this discussion board, thats out of the question. You either made it as some form of enlightenment for others, or for some way of reassuring yourself that you are doing the right thing.

Rip, sometimes "BECAUSE I SAY SO" will not be enough to your children, even though they shut their mouth for fear of reprisal - kids keep thinking about it, and trying to work out the logic behind it (thats why they can be so inquisitive)

I'm not saying that you should have a bunch of self serving, spoiled brats playing Mario and drinking coke all day while you try to explain to them like adults why you dont agree.
But sometimes "Because I say so" is a good way to raise followers, not leaders and invididuals.

Think about it.

Or, you can just believe that I'm attacking you.


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I'm sure that he could probably tell someone more about specifications of WW2 aircraft than you could. Come to think of it, I'm certain of it.


Maybe so, who cares about specifications for obsolete aircraft. Thats useless data.
I'm a pilot, and a student physicist, I could not only teach you how to fly in real life, but I could also teach you why the plane flies and all the underlying forces that make it that way.
One of the ways I learned all this was spawned by the curiosity for the physics engines in old space games and first person shooters.
Aces High is not the only game you can learn stuff from.

So there really is nothing that makes AH more aceptable than other games, other than you liking it.
« Last Edit: February 04, 2003, 12:52:01 PM by Animal »

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« Reply #98 on: February 04, 2003, 01:40:05 PM »
Well, this is coming from a 15 year old Gamer, Programmer, Modeler, Musician, Artist(sorta) and really interested in tech stuff :D

I've learned an incredible amount from games, like Age Of Empires, and Empire Earth, which have  gotten me incredibly interested in medieval history!
And, skills such as programming, and game developing are very good to have, u can make a lotta money doing that stuff!

I love historic games, and making historically accurate games, games like AH, EE etc. (though  aoe and ee have alotta un historically accurate things, they are better than most!).

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« Reply #99 on: February 04, 2003, 02:11:07 PM »
Tell him that if he can demonstrate an ollie over a curb - then you will buy him Tony Hawk :)

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« Reply #100 on: February 04, 2003, 03:04:58 PM »
When I was growing up "...Because I SAID SO!" was always a good enough answer for me.  It was brief and to the point and EASILY understood.

What's more, that argument is still relevant today.

You da man Rip.

Regards, Shuckins

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« Reply #101 on: February 09, 2003, 05:04:06 AM »
It must suck to your son. He askes for a vid game console only to be whipped by daddys  ME109  leather belt! LOL

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« Reply #102 on: February 09, 2003, 12:59:00 PM »
Ripsnort,

I'm totally with Animal on this one and I just don't get this thread.  Console games and computer games are actually the exact same thing...both are interactive games written in code and displayed using pixels.  The actual games can vary but in fact many games are ported to both systems.  But to say one is more addicting than another is ludicrous...because of the size and shape of its CPU case??  As I write this my two kids are laughing and actually getting along while playing "Mario's House Party" on our Gamecube system (which is rare that they get along...wait, maybe these aren't my kids but aliens impersonating my children!)  Now I personally think it's a really stupid game, but that's because it's written for a younger audience.  On the other hand, I think Aces High is really for an adult audience, especially with the language and tone of conversation I see occuring on ALL channels and just by the very nature of the subject matter.  I think you aren't seeing the forest for the trees or something here.  But maybe that's not what you are trying to do.  The biggest difference between console and computer is that a console can allow up to four-players at a time, which is a lot of fun and can do a lot to enhance a child's interactive and people's skills which are very valuable throughout life.  
Though I only briefly met you at the con, you seem like a very respectible person and it's good to see you have your kids' best interest in your heart.  Kids are kids and they need to be able to play and have a good time and smile and laugh too.  It's tough being a kid and sometimes they just need a fun break.

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« Reply #103 on: February 09, 2003, 03:22:57 PM »
Rip, I swear, yah must have some inner need to get raped.

Bend over...

but don't expect a reach-around.

Somebody noted the important thing is to have rules and limits.

The fact that your kids will realize that there are two standards for acceptable behavior ain't gonna help your parental authority later on.

In your shoes I'd certainly have a proscribed list of games.. but I wouldn't exclude the system.

say.. did you drop your keys again?
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« Reply #104 on: February 09, 2003, 03:47:58 PM »
Didn't read the 'whole' thread but allowing the kids to play video games is ok in my book. I have well behaved kids. They get their chores and homework done before they can play PS2. They don't play at all on the nights they have Karate. They play outside with the neighborhood kids alot, basketball, football, etc...

As long as they get good grades and behave I don't have a problem with it. If they start not turning in homework, etc... the first thing to go is their game 'privleges'. They are 9 and 12 yrs old and are good kids. I play with them on PS2 sometimes myself and they love it.

Like Skuzzy said, moderation is the key.